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A Home Away From Home When You Or A Loved One Needs Medical Care.

A Jubilee Ministry of The Episcopal Church

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St Agnes’ House provides physical, emotional, spiritual and economic respite during a difficult time in the lives of our guests. While we always appreciate donations, the $10 per person per night fee we ask for is not required and can be waived or even sponsored by some of the donations the house receives.

We are called to help those in great need and provide for them the emotional and spiritual support of a home during their period of recovery  or moments of worry for their loved ones. Our staff and volunteers are pleased to assist guests with their needs.

FUNDING
See the Get Involved page for all of the ways you can contribute to St. Agnes’ House.  

Our budget for 2014 is $104,000.  In addition, we rely upon in-kind donations of cleaning and office supplies.

Help Close the Funding Gap Today!

As of July 31, we need $56,878 to close the funding gap for the year.

As of July 31, we need $56,878 to close the funding gap for the year.

 

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A View From the Porch (August 14, 2014)

I’m back from vacation, busy catching up.  It’s also nearly a year since I started at St. Agnes’ House.  I’ve enjoyed thinking about everyone I’ve met and all the hard work that has happened over the past year.

I especially enjoy the fun and unusual things that come my way.  For instance, a supporter wants to donate towels to the house and emailed me to ask what kind of fabric we wanted.  This spurred me to contact Jason Swanson, Assistant Professor in the UK Department of Retailing and Tourism Management.  Jason visited us in April.  He is a member of Trinity Episcopal Church, Danville.

What kind of towels should we buy for durability and good wear, I asked him.  He linked me with Professor Elizabeth Easter, his colleague.  Professor Easter asked me to call her to discuss our needs  Turns out she established the Textile Testing Laboratory in 1988, and she has worked with the Association for Linen Managers for many years.

She gave me a crash course on towels, sheets, mattress covers, and pillows that are made for hotels and hospitals to withstand the many washings and uses.  We are grateful for the many donations we receive and it’s great to know what to ask for…what can work best in our situation.

This week I’ve often heard our guests say how much rest they get in our house and in their rooms.  They are very grateful for it.  One guest said, “I had an epidural and sleeping in those chairs in the waiting room was awful.”

Thanks Dr. Swanson and Dr. Easter for freely providing information that ensures our guests are well cared for.

Enjoy our view from the porch!

Love, Rebecca

Thanks Steele-Reese Foundation!

The Steele-Reese Foundation has granted us $7,500 this year and $7,500 next year to support lodging for guests from the Appalachian counties in Kentucky.  As of August 9, we’ve provided over $28,000 worth of lodging for these guests.  Guests from these counties have only been able to pay $1,500 of that cost.

These were taken at dusk.  Fall is coming.

These were taken at dusk. Fall is coming.

The sunflowers are beautiful.

The sunflowers are beautiful.

Sunflowers peek over the porch

Sunflowers peek over the porch

Had to include one vacation photo from Niagara Falls.  This was taken from the Maid of the Mist Boat Ride.

Had to include one vacation photo from Niagara Falls. This was taken from the Maid of the Mist Boat Ride.

 

A View From the Porch (July 24, 2014)

This week I have returned to the past, which is also the present – I am attending the National Association of Social Workers (NASW) 2014 conference in Washington, DC.  I worked for NASW for nearly 20 years, most of that time in Pennsylvania and then at the national office in Washington.  I am seeing many former co-workers and colleagues.  Many of these people supported me as I went to seminary and then came to Kentucky.

As a Certified Social Worker in Kentucky, attending this conference helps me attain the continuing education credits required for my license.  In addition, I am looking for workshops that will strengthen the work I do at St. Agnes’ House.

Yesterday, I was excited to hear the opening speakers.  Kane Smego is from North Carolina and uses the spoken word to help himself and others.  His poetry was powerful, bringing me to tears at times, reminding me of the power of the arts to heal and to touch us in ways we can’t always logically explain.

The next speaker was Brene Brown.  She is a social work educator and researcher.  She is well known for her TED talk on vulnerability, as well as her work on the subject.  She emphasized how we try to protect ourselves from being hurt, putting on armor, which is driven by shame, fear, scarcity, anxiety, and uncertainty.  Putting on this armor of “protection,” denying our vulnerability, steals love, joy, belonging, courage, empathy, trust, innovation, creativity, gratitude, accountability, and adaptability from us.

We must work to be courageous, which means we expose our vulnerability in safe ways with people who love and care about us.

And that is what St. Agnes’ House strives to be.  A place where vulnerability is exposed.  Where the horrible thing we tried to rehearse in our lives…to prepare for…the “other shoe has dropped” time in our lives finds a safe place to rest, so that at some point we can be joyous, courageous, creative, gracious and loving.

Enjoy this view from the porch!

Love,
Rebecca
image Brene Brown speaking to the attendees.

image Kane Smego and the spoken word

image Iconic view of DC

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Took in some artwork at the National
Gallery, including this painting by Dali

A View From the Porch (July 16, 2014)

Outside, it’s noisy.  The University of Kentucky Business Hall has moved into the former Lexington Theological Seminary.  Mandrell Hall is the name of the building right next to us.  The move-in was quiet and there is more activity…more cars in and out of the parking lot and more people around the building.  This week, they’ve been doing some major work outside with big equipment and like good construction people, they start fairly early in the morning.

Change is evident.  Very little remains the same, yet many of us find change very difficult.  Last night on Charlie Rose, I was listening to Reid Hoffman, founder of LinkedIn, speak about the importance of people who are adapters.

Well, St. Agnes’ House is certainly an adapter.  Started and focused on assisting people who came to Lexington for cobalt treatments for cancer, the services changed as cancer treatment changed.  Then Ronald McDonald House opened caring for children and their families.  Then Hope Lodge opened for people needing to come to Lexington for cancer treatment.  And cancer treatment became more widely available in peoples’ home communities.

Yet…there was still a need for St. Agnes’ House!  This year so far, we have an average 76% occupancy rate.  We’ve provided 1381 room nights of lodging!  And let me tell you, medical care and treatment has many variables in it.  Some people cannot come to Lexington unless they have lodging, so treatment is delayed.  Unexpected complications arise so people need to stay longer.  Sometimes people recover faster and leave early.  We work hard to be supportive and caring and flexible.  Sometimes we start the week with a full house and with all of the variables, end the week with available and empty rooms.

Sometimes we don’t see the people staying here.  They are at the hospital much of the day and late into the evening.  Sometimes there is a crowd, sharing meals together and supporting each other.

Thanks to so many of you, St. Agnes’ House is still available to those facing these difficult challenges.  That is one thing that hasn’t changed in 40 years.  But just about everything else has needed to adapt!

Enjoy our View From the Porch!

Love, Rebecca+

Pillows!  

Sixteen new pillows for our beds.  We use 32 pillows in our 9 rooms.

Sixteen new pillows for our beds. We use 32 pillows in our 9 rooms.

Imagine how much use these pillows get!  We need 32 pillows for each bed spot in the house (that’s 2 pillows per spot)!  Recently a generous donor sent us 16 pillows!  More pillows were donated last month, so we have about 21 of the 32 we’d like to have.  Also, thanks to a donor who gave us an Amazon Gift Card, we purchased 16 pillow covers to extend the life of these pillows.  Just need 16 more….

Takes quite a lot of sheets, towels, blankets and pillows to accommodate our guests.  They appreciate the lovely look of the rooms when they come… the welcome they receive.  We constantly hear how grateful they are to be able to stay here.  And thanks to the pillow donors, they not only have a place to lay their heads, but a pillow to put underneath them.

Find out what else it takes to run St. Agnes’ House 9 guest rooms, 6 bathrooms, 2 kitchens and 2 living rooms, plus staff quarters!  Visit our Amazon Wish List.

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If you look closely, you can see the construction equipment next door.

If you look closely, you can see the construction equipment next door.

The pretty Marigolds...

The pretty Marigolds…

 

A View From the Porch (July 9, 2014)

Today I’m thinking about hope…that thing that we cannot hold, yet undergirds our very being.  St. Agnes’ House is filled with hope.  Yes, people are going through some of the most difficult challenges in their lives, so there is chaos, fear, and uncertainty.  At the same time, they hold great hope… for a cure…that the medical treatment will work…that they or their loved one can go home… that life will be better than it has been recently.

St. Agnes’ House contributes to that hope.  There is a community here to share the good days and the difficult days.  There is peace and quiet here.  There is a good night’s sleep here.  The worry of where to stay and how to afford a place to stay is gone.  The worry of how to get back and forth to the hospital is gone.

Hope changes, of course.  Sometimes there is no cure or no treatment.  Sometimes the improvement is not much.  Even so, St. Agnes’ House allowed worry to be decreased so hope could be increased!

Enjoy our view from the porch!  I’ve included some photos from the patio,too.  Guests are gathering here frequently throughout the day and evening, enjoying each others’ company and the inviting space.

Blessings to you!

Rebecca+

Donations Needed!

Remember to check our Amazon Wish List for items to donate.  You can buy them from Amazon and have them shipped directly to us.  Some items allow you to subscribe, so the item will be sent each month.  Or go to your favorite store to purchase items and drop them off a the House.  Mary says many of the dollar discount stores have cleaning items at great prices.

Currently we need:  Lysol Spray, Clorox cleaning wipes, All purpose cleaner, shower cleaner, toilet bowl cleaner, bleach, fabric dryer sheets, floor cleaner, and hand soap.

THANKS so much!

Volunteers Needed to pick up Chipotle and Starbucks donations!

Consider volunteering at St. Agnes’ House.  Information is available on our volunteer page.  There are a variety of tasks, requiring a variety of skills.

Currently, we are in need of people to pick up our Starbucks and Chipotle donations and bring them to the House.  Both stores are close to St. Agnes’ House.

Chipotle, 345 S. Limestone:  Every Monday and Friday between 8:30-10:00am.  Donations consist of meat.  Bring to house and place in refrigerator.

Starbucks, 870 S. Broadway (near Virginia Ave.):  Every Monday, any time.  Donations consist of pastries.  Bring to house.  If you have time, bag items and place in freezer for guests.  Count items for weekly donation report.

Please contact Mary at 859-396-4603 if you are interested, even if you could do only one day or even a month.

The flowers and swing create an enjoyable resting place.

The flowers and swing create an enjoyable resting place.

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The patio is an inviting gathering place after a day at the hospital.

The patio is an inviting gathering place after a day at the hospital.

Can you find the sunflower?

Can you find the sunflower?

 

Cleaning Items needed at St. Agnes’ House!

Our cleaning closet is getting low on the following cleaning products.  Check our Amazon Wish List where you can order and have the items sent directly to us, Or go to your favorite store and buy them and drop them off to us.  Mary says the many dollar stores have the items at a reasonable price.

All Purpose Cleaner
Bleach
Clorox Wipes
Fabric Sheets
Floor Cleaner
Lysol Spray
Shower Cleaner
Toilet Bowl Cleaner

Thanks for your help!

 

A View From the Porch (July 2, 2014)

“I like it here.  It’s homey.”

Yesterday, as the hot, sultry days of July began, this was what I heard over and over from our guests.  We have a full house and there is lots of activity here.  One couple is sharing their large room with another patient they met at the hospital who needed lodging. Last evening, many guests gathered on the patio for a cook out.  The challenge of being away from home, of facing difficult physical health needs, of being in a strange place, of not knowing what will come next, of facing their mortality, of not knowing how to support a loved one, creates a camaraderie and spirit of care that, ultimately, is healing.

Jesus taught us the importance of community.  Jesus showed us we do not need to carry our burdens alone.  St. Agnes’ House provides a place where the heavy burdens of life can be carried together.  Thanks for your support of this homey place.

Love, Rebecca+

This week our porch is decorated for July 4th!  Enjoy our view. ( And scroll down to see photos from our night at the Legends!)

Our porch is decorated in red, white and blue for July 4th.

Our porch is decorated in red, white and blue for July 4th.

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Community Organization of the Night at Legends Ballpark

On July 1, St. Agnes’ House was the Community Organization of the Night at the Legends’ ballpark as the Legends hosted the Greensboro Grasshoppers.  While the Legends lost, it was a fairly close, high scoring game (12-16).  We had a table with our information in a shady part of the concourse.  We were interviewed at home plate prior to the start of the game and interviewed on ESPN Radio WLXG 1300 AM by Keith Elkins.  We were warmly received and provided a great outreach to the community.

A friend told me today that she heard me on the radio as she and her son were driving home from baseball practice.  When she told her son she knew me, he said with awe and surprise, “Mom, you know a movie star!”  Grateful to the Legends ball club for this great opportunity.  Enjoy the photos from the game!

Our table in a shaded area by the main entrance.

Our table in a shaded area by the main entrance.

With the Legends' baseball :)

With the Legends’ baseball :)

A great night at the ballpark!

A great night at the ballpark!

In the booth with Keith Elkins

In the booth with Keith Elkins

Former State Senator Flynn has worked at the ballpark since its opening 14 years ago.

Former State Senator Flynn has worked at the ballpark since its opening 14 years ago.

Senator Flynn's son is Doug Flynn, who played for the World Series winning Cincinnati Reds.

Senator Flynn’s son is Doug Flynn, who played for the World Series winning Cincinnati Reds.

A View From the Porch (June 25, 2014)

Today I’m thinking about baseball.  On Tuesday, July 1, St. Agnes’ House will be the Community Organization of the Night as the Lexington Legends play the Greensboro Grasshoppers.  We can tell the story of St. Agnes’ House prior to the first pitch, as well as on the radio between innings.  We will have an information table at the game.  It’s a great opportunity!

And I love baseball, especially low scoring, good pitching games.  I’m not much for watching it on TV or listening to the game on the radio.  I like to be there in the stands.  In the heat of the summer, with the green field and perfectly manicured dirt.  I enjoy watching the way the team works together.  The strategy of who hits first and who hits last.  The communication between the catcher and pitcher about which pitch to throw to which hitter.  How each person on the team plays their position and yet is aware of what is happening with the ball.  It’s a beautifully choreographed game.

And it takes lots of teamwork to make St. Agnes’ House work.  Our team has many members:  the volunteers who answer the phones, tell our story, pray for our guests and the ministry, raise funds,  and donate needed items; the staff who clean the rooms, care for the house and the grounds, and lend a listening ear to our guests; the Diocesan Mission and Ministry committee who provide support; and Diocesan staff who provide administrative support.

This afternoon, as I was returning to the house, Monica and Jerry were in the kitchen.  Tall Monica with long brown hair, about 45, and shorter Jerry with a stubbly beard and short brown hair, about 45, were just getting up.  “Good Afternoon,” Monica said.  She was somewhat embarrassed, explaining that they’d just gotten up.  She was fixing herself a cup of tea.  “We really needed that sleep,” she explained.  “I’m glad we had a place for you to stay,” I replied.

Jerry and Monica’s daughter is in the hospital with a severe lung condition.  They’re hoping a recent surgery finally resolved the problem, but it’s been a difficult week and finally having a place to stay, where they can sleep in and arise to a cup of tea is a blessing to them.  They couldn’t stop thanking me for being able to stay.

Thanks for the team who makes St. Agnes’ House available to people like Monica and Jerry!

Enjoy our view from the porch!

An orchid blooming on the porch.

An orchid blooming on the porch.

When you sit on our porch, you are surrounded by plants and flowers.

When you sit on our porch, you are surrounded by plants and flowers.

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Our steps took a beating this past winter.  One has been repaired this week.  We need a few more repairs and then a good coat of paint!

Our steps took a beating this past winter. One has been repaired this week. We need a few more repairs and then a good coat of paint!

The rose has finished blooming.  Now the tiger lilies have taken over.

The rose has finished blooming. Now the tiger lilies have taken over.

A View From The Porch (June 18, 2014)

Today’s view is from the porch of a condo in Sea Isle City, New Jersey.  This is the bayside.  Just like the ocean, the bay gets larger and smaller with the tides.  Right now the tide is coming in and soon there will be less grassy area.  When the tide goes out, it’s hard to imagine even the boats getting through the channel.

The bayside provides a nice breeze and much bird life to watch.  Egrets land and wade in the swampy grass, looking for fish or frog.  Red Winged Blackbirds sit atop the reeds and sing their familiar call.  Swifts and terns fly about.  An Osprey nests in the distance.

And the pattern has gone on for thousands of years.  Yes, storms have changed the shape and undoubtedly human beings have changed the shape too.  But the daily in and out of the tides has gone on and on.  The nesting and activity of the birds hasn’t changed much.  Being here on the porch is soothing.  The sounds and the pattern are relaxing.

Forty years ago, planning began for St. Agnes’ House and after a time on Woodland Avenue, by 1977, the House opened in its current location.  Yes, things have changed, but the basic mission of providing affordable, safe, clean lodging for people needing medical care or their family members has remained the same.  The daily tasks of cleaning rooms, changing sheets, taking reservations go on and on.  The care, prayer, and hospitality continue.  St. Agnes’ House is reliable like the rising and falling of the tides.

Enjoy this view from the porch!

Love, Rebecca+

Bayside, Sea Isle City, NJ.  Looking northwest.

Bayside, Sea Isle City, NJ. Looking northwest.

Bayside, Sea Isle City, NJ, looking southwest.

Bayside, Sea Isle City, NJ, looking southwest.

A View From the Porch June 11, 2014

This week’s view from the porch is from my son and daughter-in-law’s home in York, PA.  Yes, I am on vacation.  It’s that time of year.  Growing up, we always took a vacation, even if it was only from PA to upstate New York to visit my grandparents.  As the time neared, my mother would explain my father’s grumpiness by proclaiming, “Your father needs a vacation.”  I learned early that taking a vacation from work was important to rejuvenate oneself.

At the same time, family has always been important to me.  This vacation is about being with and seeing my family.  I started with a visit to my brother.  Now I’m here with my son, daughter-in-law and two grandchildren.  Next I’ll go to Northern Virginia to visit my daughter.  Next week, my son and his family and I will be at the beach in New Jersey.

The views today are of the lovely roses in full bloom at my son’s, as well as looking down the street as my grandchildren raced to school.  Yes, they are in their last days of school, so my joy and pleasure is to walk them to school and pick them up at the end of the day.

Thanks to the capable and caring Mary and Reynold, I can take this vacation with great assurance that all is busy and well at St. Agnes’ House.  Will you have a vacation this summer?  Where will you go?

Blessings and peace and enjoy this view from the porch.

The roses in full bloom.

The roses in full bloom.

The grandchildren running to school

The grandchildren running to school